You only love the ones you hurt

Hmmm, I am not sure that is really how the saying goes. Oh well. Word processing is soo permanent, I can't really go back and change it now, can I?

After being single for 10 years I finally found someone worth marrying. I got her rings from Tiffany's. I actually had to get my first credit card in my name only to buy it. I was living a cash only lifestyle for a long time.

So when we were picking out rings for me, we decided the number one thing was strength and durability followed by uniqueness. Due to my climbing, surfing, tennis, motorcycle, fighting, mnt biking and such lifestyle, we wanted me to have a ring that would not look beat to crap from my use of it.

Many hours of research later we decided on a tungsten steel ring. They have a cool dark shiny gray glint to them. And they can't be cut off. At all. A tungsten steel ring can not be really engraved or re sized either. Due to my funky weight gain and loss patterns my ring never fit after about a month of marriage. So it sat in my dresser or on a chain around my neck.

Until now. I finally got it sized correctly and I think my finger will stay the same size for a few months this time. Hopefully!

And hopefully I don't do any major trauma to my finger. When I asked the jeweler what would happen if I did his reply was, "since you can't cut the ring, well, they would just have to cut your finger off."

You know what, I think I like that.